My Bouncy boy

The night when we ran to the hospital for my delivery is still before my eyes, with in the 2 hrs I joined, my little bundle of joy joined us wondering all the doctors over there. A silent cry with his eyes slightly open and his cute lips will stay forever in my mind. Those tough times in my pregnancy soon turned to be sweet nothings with our first kiss and a hug.Women are blessed to be Mothers who could cherish some beautiful moments that defines the beauty of a life.

I must thank Varunavi for passing this beautiful tag, where I could reveal Mother in me. As this tag says to write five things I love about being a mother.

• Being pregnant, I loved the feel of his kicks and moves, Though painful sometimes, they are sweet sweet so sweeeet.


• I love to kiss him soon he slips to sleep. My Mom says a big NO to this but I could not resist myself.
  
• He kisses me while munching the food that are a great treat for his taste buds and then I simply stare at him to not to miss his joyful expression.


• He comes back to hug me though I shout or I am angry at him that's how they steal our hearts with their innocence filled love.


• His cute Lil steps(I should say lil runs, he rarely walks) and eyes search for me saying 'maama, maama' in my absence and cries if he could not see me for a while.

and there are many more, every moment with him is a gifted one and precious. I realised the value of a Mother being a Mother rather than being a daughter. His bubbly words, silly acts, messy arts, quirky habits.....makes our 'life' ride exciting on a happy rail(touch wood). He will be Two by this May. May God give him bright future.

I wish all the best to many of my friends who are to be Moms. You are gonna enjoy a lot. I want to pass this tag to my sister.

The Quirky tag

Got this tag from Swathi and chandu. Here goes my Quirky habits.

1. At the end of my every meal, my plate looks clean and neat. I even don't leave the cumin seeds that were left on my plate. I pick them with my finger tips and enjoy them some times this makes my DH to ask "why don't you have some more " :)

2. During nights I fight with my Hubby and kid for blanket and I will forcibly snatch it from them and I talk a lot in midst of my sleep

3. Before leaving my house I check my stove tops,locks etc twice or thrice and also in the halfway of our journey I again think about them with a doubtful mind.

4. I like my curd rice with plain Dal(muddha pappu). You may all laugh at this but I simply love that combination.

5. I sing at all the times. If at all I dont know the lyrics, I simply sing it or hum with my own words.

6. I read each and every board that I happen to see around and I enjoy playing with all the other toys there whenever we shop a toy for Rithvik.

and there are many more. I want to tag this to Amu and Sree

The Love tag

Tagged by Swathi
RULE #1 People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.


RULE #2 Tag 6 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by continue this game by sending it to other people.


1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
I will make him to realise what he lost

2. If you can have a dream come true, what would it be?
To have a job to support my parents.

3. Whose butt would you like to kick?
Who ever makes my Parents to feel bad.

4. Why do you blog?
To boost up and express myself.

5. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
yep, we still live as friends

6. Which is more blessed: loving someone or being loved by someone?
Being loved by someone. We are very lucky to get a lovable care taker.

7. How long do you intend to wait for someone you love?
not yet across such scenario but for beloved ones, I will wait for life long

8. If you could root for one social cause, what would it be?
I want to see my Country corruption free.

9. What takes you down the fastest?
Failure

10. What resurrects you the fastest?
When I outburst my tears hugging my Hubby. He is my emotional absorber.

11. What’s your strength?
My frankness.

12. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
Swathi: Yet to meet this wonderful girl. Really to say I was very much impressed with her blog and wanted to start one of course she too don't know this yet. Very supportive, friendly,helpful and could bring changes every day with her brilliant ideas.

13. Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?
Happily married by saving enough for future.

14. Whats the purpose of such Tags?
Increase the visitors to blogs by letting others know about us:)

15. Would you give all in a relationship?
I believe that life stays cool with relationships.. I try my level best to keep the relationships with the persons I like..

16. Would you forgive and forget someone no matter how horrible a thing he has done?
I can't forget. Though I have to speak to them due to some constraints, I hate them and I couldn't be normal with them such easily. Forgiveness means it depends up on the complexity of the issue.

17. Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
Life is sweet when you have some one for you.

18. How would you see yourself in ten years time?
With a lovely life , with a job for me and being planned a well career for my Son

19. What’s your fear?
Not to be in troubles of any kind

20. What’s the first thing you do when you wake up?
Appu'day' thellarindhaa!!! Ramya legaali thappadhu :(

Tag 6 people.
I want to change this I want to tag this to Usha, Chandu. I want to tag to some more but I was already late.

Soul-Search Tag!!

I have been tagged by Sree.

The tag rules: Write about the changes that have happened in your life, at least five, because of your significant other. Then Tag five others. If they don’t have a significant other, then any one person, who has caused the change. Please don’t leave the tag alone in the wild.

Its the time to review my past .It was been 3yrs we got married. Year by year our life turns out to be new with different flavours, realising the real taste. I was tied with a bond as soon as i completed my 20th year. I think that it was a bit early as it was just end of my teenage. But I strongly believe that maturity in thoughts improves with the age may be some one may argue that young blood rocks but that teenage is just incapable for decision making. Luckily I never had to regret for being married at earlier in fact, I learnt many from my better half.

Coming to the point, I learnt how to inculcate patience even this was the principle of many successful men. Being cautious while using words and should be a good listener rather than a criticiser. Many of the situations, made me to outburst my anger but that controlling power made me to not to loose my words. If we add a bit patience to our life, we will be away from anger.

Positive attitude is like a foundation for great thoughts. Unknowingly, I don't have the positive side in my thoughts. I even don't have a mind to realise that I am thinking in a wrong way. I didn't convince on it for the first time he opined but later if i went on analysing, I found myself in a wrong way. Recently i was across through some article from Mr. Abdul Kalam where he says us to take a moment to write down all the phrases you use on a daily basis or any Toxic self-talk that you have noticed so you will begin to catch yourself as they occur and change them.

Caring yes this is the right phrase for love. He loves to care and cares with love in turn made me to realise the happiness we can give to other as a lovable care taker.

Being responsible is the major change in my life. I even don't know before how to be responsible that too with a dedication in every job we do.A person can be treated as the superior when he has this factor

I became totally dependent. I don't know whether this should be counted under minus or plus. Even for silly things i could not stop my self with out seeking an advice from him. Ranging from attire selection to serious issues I would love to approach him. I question myself how did i made these all when he was not there in my life???

Last but not least to stay healthier by listening to your body and be conscious at what it needs and what not.

Thanks for tagging me Sree where I got a chance to reveal my self and I also thank the chain of bloggers who are indirectly responsible for this .....

Sorry for breaking the rule, I just want to tag this to Keerthi and Uma