Friday, March 20, 2009

Golden days

The feel of living in an own house is very great. Two days back, I dreamt of our own house where we lived together. Next morning, I was so disturbed as it took me to my sweet past. I was brought up in a joint family where we had loads of fun enjoying every bit of my life. After my Marriage, my Dad and Uncle got separated and our house was sold.

If I look back, now I realise the value of own house where we plan, imagine, monitor every brick of it. Thus we give life to our dreams, love it as a living entity. We tend to be bonded with it. Many praised our house as it has its own beauty. Its a big, modern, spacious, well designed, huge garden in front. Its very hard to digest the fact that it is no more ours......In that great house, I enjoyed a lot with my graduation mates. As it is very near to my college, all of us had had a good time. We celebrated so many functions. They are just memories sweet memories. I can't get those days back.

Poor me!!! I even don't have a snap of our beautiful house to share, hmm this time no search engine can help me out....Yes, there is no answer for some sensitive and precious matters in this world.

8 comments:

Ramana KV said...

Having seen few, i guess joint families are very much fun.. Especially during childhood..

Varunavi said...

Your post touched my heart ramya.
Ramya by reading ur post i went to my past.We had house with garden around it.Every brick in that house had our memories.But after my father's death and our marriages my mom gave it for developing.Now there is a apartment in which my mom has two flats.But our house is gone,i don't feel like going there,i went there only once and cried a lot.Will write post about that once i get the snaps of my house.There are so many memories attatched to my house.

Ramya said...

@Ramana Yes you are right, Thanks for dropping by.

@Varunavi
sorry to hear that,but this post is filled with lot of emotions, I avoid going to that place as I know that I couldnt control myself shedding tears.

hermione said...

Thats so touching Ramya!!
its indeed an attachment, emotion n part of our life which we dread losing !!

hermione said...

btw thats me, sahaja ....

Amu... said...

When you go to India...Go and take a picture Ramya..afterall it was ur house at one time...

My Childhood we never had an own house...when we did have one...i moved away to different places to study, work etc etc....so really own house attachement naaku teliyadu...thats why i am so adamant to get a house of my own ASAP here....and to have my kds grow up and feel attached the same way as u do now...

But I can undersatnd how you feel...certain memories during your growing up days can never ever be forgotton...

smitha said...

kanna,u took me to our past ra.......the house of our dreams is not ours now but it left us sweet memmories as u said.... mana inter + degree days wow kada,mana godavalu,allari,posters in our room,inka inka yenno .....missing u
a lot
cheer up with my mooooeee !!! i got a snap covering the porch,front view will send u

Ramya said...

@Sahaja you are right.
@Amu I have that photo in India but now that house is remodelled.

Akka, I become speechless when I recollect our childhood memories. Send the photo.