Tuesday, August 19, 2008

I am Sorry My Son

Last Wednesday I went for shopping with my Lil Rithvik. While I was looking at their collection, Suddenly Rithvik took the plastic disposable glass and bit a piece of it and swallowed. I immediately kept my hand inside his mouth. I could feel it but he slipped out of my hands when I made an attempt to take it out and I failed to do so and then I made him upside down but all in my vain. I called my DH and asked him to come over there( thanks for the Lady who gave her phone to make a call to DH)and we called the Doctor and she advised us to fed him Banana/Rice. She said that even an X-ray could not trace the piece so there is nothing we can do unless running for a emergency if he has any abnormal behaviour.
He rejected Banana and I gave him rice he ate it and played for some time and slept as usual but no one could imagine what we have gone through that night. It was so terrible keeping our fingers crossed, we both did not had a sleep. Next morning even I could not notice it in his potty. But by God's grace, he was fine. A feeling in my Heart is bothering me every second that it was all by my mistake and my inability to take care.
We enquired in India and the doctor there said that it is okay if we didn't face any complication until 2 and half hrs but the doctors here opine that it may take 1 month to get that piece out from his body and may expect complications, which was so shocking for us. Now my mind was fully disturbed making me to react hyper even for his usual behaviour. Only a positive thought could help me now..........Oh God..........

11 comments:

Sree said...

awwww.. dont worry.. everything will be just fine.. dont lose faih and dont blame yoursel

keerthicherukuri said...

Ayyo Ramya..Don't worry..aa piece tvaraga bayataki ravataniki emayina remedies vunnayemo kanukko...like elanti food/liquids theesukunte freega pass avuthundo thelisthe u can try that out kadaa..everything 'll be fine..TC

uvrao said...

he will be fine ramya...don't blame yourself...if it had to happen , it would have happened, even if he were under your DH's watch.... don't be too harsh on yourself... :) think positive...

Swathi said...

ayyo ramya..dont worry..as a kid..nenu oka sari edo metal piece minganu anta...but nothing happened to me later..so be positive..ilantivi jarugutu untayi..and yes dont blame urself..

Amu... said...

Ayyo Ramya....Dont Blame urself...Pillalu anaga alage chestaru...nenu 1st class o 1ruppee coin mingnu...1.5 months tarvata bayata vachesindi....baaaga liquids teeskovalsina avasaram unde....

Rithvik ki emi avadu...nuvvu emi worry avadu ok naa....please ra...

Praneetha Raghava said...

hello ramya. first time to your blog. first post choosi chala bada vesindi. meeru bada padakandi. mimmalni blame chesukovaddu. antha saripotundi. emi kadu. be positive and give him lot of fluids n mainly solids, so tht he excretes more. tension padaddu.

Ramya said...

Thanks for your support. I am so lucky to have lovely friends like you.
I increased the fruits/vegetable content in hishelp hoping for good.
@Raghava Thanks for dropping by

Uma_Duddu said...

Hi Ramya,

This is the first time i am reading your Blog, and it has been very tear jerking for me. I hope that your kid will be fine soon. I am in india if you will feel better i can goto a temple for you to pray. Take care. your friend from TIA

Ramya said...

@Uma
Thanks for your concern.I have been praying God, we go to temple every week here.Thank you such for your kind words.

neeru said...

heyy ramya....don worry so much...rithwik ll b fine very soon...tk cr...

sravyareddy@gmail.com said...

Ramya,

How is your son now? I hope every thing is fine by Baba's grace. But don't worry, nothing will happen to the kids. My son chewed the indian tablet wrapper which is made of aluminum, we faced the same problem. Till today he is doing just fine though we were worried. This happened to him when he was 11months old,now he is 8yrs old. So, don't worry just think positive always.